Anything that they attempt to do is necessarily a "cope" - a temporary way of making themselves feel better about their situation. The blackpill says that there can be no personal solutions to structural problems, and so no amount of working out, dieting, showering and self-improvement can improve the lot of the incel. The idea is that women want to have sex with as many "high quality" men as possible, moving from one to another quickly and without thought. "Riding the cock carousel" is a common phrase on incel forums. Term used to describe what incels think that women do before they eventually settle down. It's also partly why a lot of their discourse obsessively focusses on suicide. This, I've argued elsewhere, is the reason that incels are starting to commit acts of terror. The problem with the blackpill is that it means that those who subscribe to it are either doomed to a life of misery or have to take violent steps to prevent that. It's a bit like a topsy-turvy version of debates between liberal and radical feminism, where one emphasises personal solutions and incremental progress, whilst the other says the whole damn system is wrong and only a complete overhaul could fix it. The blackpill rejects this, saying that there can be no personal solutions to systemic problems, and that the world was, is and always will be stacked against men who are "genetically inferior", and that women are inherently wired to prefer men with particular kinds of facial features, bone structure, and body type. From there, they can game the system by becoming an "alpha" male, going to the gym, treating women poorly, and so on. The idea behind " redpilling" is that men recognise that the world is unfair and stacked against them in favour of women.
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Used to refer to maximising an attribute (usually physical). Related: looksmaxx, statusmaxx, wristmaxx, noun-maxx. As a result, incels tend to dislike men who betabuxx, and dismiss the idea of attracting a woman later in life because of the fear of being treated in this way. Usually, betabuxxing involves financially supporting a woman whilst she finds sexual fulfilment with Chad elsewhere, cucking the beta man. Incels believe this only happens due to that partner hitting the "wall", which refers to an imagined time at which women suddenly start to lose SMV (sexual market value) and decide to settle for a man who can support them (usually financially). Term used to describe a man who manages to find a partner. Some incels identify as "omega" males, implying they are below even the betas. They've been misapplied to humans for a while, most prominently by Men's Rights Activists and Pick-up Artists. The words come from biology, where they're used to describe wolves, among other animals.
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They lack charisma and shy away from confrontation. Used to generalise about women in negative ways. An Incel Glossary, from A-Z AWALTĪll Women Are Like That.
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With grateful thanks to r/IncelTears for their suggestions of refinements to definitions here.
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#Chad urban dictionary series#
Before I spend the rest of this series analysing the characteristics and behaviours of the incel community, it's worth producing a guide to the words that they use (many of which are genuine neologisms) and how they use them, not only to promote understanding but also to illustrate how the worlds they've created reflect a particular view of the world.
#Chad urban dictionary generator#
r/Incels, which still existed at the time before being booted off reddit in November 2017, was by far the most prolific generator of new words. Last year, I wrote a few articles for Quartz in which I analysed the vocabulary of the alt-right and groups that are broadly associated with it. Part One: Incelocalypse is available here. This post contains mention of rape and suicide.